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The “lust” all young people have: And how we missed it because of bad Bible interpretation

7/16/2013

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Have you ever sat through church youth lessons where the boys had to be separated from the girls? Do you remember why? Were you ever told splitting up the boys and girls was necessary for some “guy talk” and “girl talk”? In my experience, that meant only one thing—time for a lesson about lust. 

I don’t know what the girls did. I imagined them in the next room looking through BRIDE magazine, playing M.A.S.H. or picking out prom dresses. They laughed and hugged while we men stared at the floor. We were slammed in the face with our evil and unbound sexual desire. Lecturers called us adulterers and recommended gouging out our eyes and cutting off our sexually promiscuous hands (see Matthew 5:27-30). We were taught the second glance rule to keep our hearts in check. We were assigned accountability partners specifically to discuss how, when and where we acted on sexual desire in the past week. We were nearly made to believe that the pinnacle of male spirituality is the absence of sexual attraction.

Finding Sex Where It Doesn’t Exist

One of the verse bombs hurled our way was 2 Timothy 2:22. “Flee from the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.” Without fail every teacher interpreted the expression "evil desires of youth" (or “youthful lusts” in some translations) as a man’s sex drive. You needed to flee, run, scat, sprint and hurry if you wanted to escape it.

Admittedly 2 Timothy 2:22 did justify the advice to find accountability partners (“pursue… along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart”). But it didn’t quite make sense. Why would some guy fighting sexual temptation find victory by pursuing peace instead of sex? Why does nothing Paul write in 2 Timothy 2 ever mention sexual purity or promiscuity? Why doesn’t Paul use adjectives like “sensual” or “sexual” to describe “lusts” as he does elsewhere when discussing sexual desire? 

Telling the Bible What It Means

Any one of us who reads a Bible gets to decide what the words mean—whether we know we’re doing it or not. Now that's an intimidating responsibility. If you think 2 Timothy 2:22 warns about sexual lust, then it does. Your assumptions, experiences and opinions combine to transform the meaning of verses into something familiar to you. Consciously or not, you tell the Bible what it means. So how do you figure out if it actually agrees with you?
"Consciously or not, you tell the Bible what it means. So how do you figure out if it actually agrees with you?"
I believe this question has been dangerously ignored for almost 500 years in the Protestant tradition. Martin Luther and many protesters against the catholic system in the 16th century wanted Bibles in every home in a language everyone could read. That protestant value revolutionized Christianity after 1500 years without personal Bible study. The shift from just hearing the Bible at Christian gatherings to reading it on your own opened up the possibility—no, it demanded the necessity—of every Christian to interpret the Bible as he or she sees fit. 

Putting the Bible in almost everyone’s hands and language has introduced many to Jesus. That's the good part. But it also created an endless string of bad interpretations. 2 Timothy 2:22 is just one of many verses that well-intentioned but unprepared teachers of the Bible have messed up. But we can get it right by studying the context of the chapter.

Young People Love to Be Right

2 Timothy 2:14 begins the section of Paul’s letter in which 2 Timothy 2:22 is found with a command: “Don’t argue about precise wording because it’s useless.” Paul’s advice may not be relevant to a songwriter or a student finalizing an English paper, but young Timothy needed to hear it. What is Paul talking about? He is talking about theological discussions. He is talking about pointless arguments about God that don’t matter. Paul calls these arguments: “foolish and ignorant speculations” (2 Timothy 2:23). Paul doesn’t want Timothy to get caught up in fights about someone’s theory of how God does what he does. That is the context of 2 Timothy 2:22.

When Paul says, “Run away from the evil desires of youth,” he isn’t talking about sex. He isn’t talking about fantasies or sexual temptation or porn. He is talking about theological arguments. He is telling Timothy not to get trapped in speculative conversations about God.

So what are the “youthful lusts” for us to escape? It’s the desire to win every argument. Young people love to be right. I know that personally because I is one.

Stop Your Pointless Speculations about God
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I’ve been in too many discussions that devolve into theoretical guessing about God’s ways. We give the Bible some meaning it doesn’t have and then argue our point with the first person willing to spar. Here’s how God will blow up the earth. Here’s how to find a demon. Here’s how God speaks to your inner spirit. Here’s why God sovereignly killed your sister. Here’s what God is doing through your divorce.

Blogging belligerently, theorizing incessantly or attacking some guy at a coffee shop because he disagrees with your idea isn’t cool. God doesn’t like it. Paul says “foolish and ignorant speculations” lead to quarrels, and “the Lord's helpers must not pick fights, but be kind to all, able to teach, patient when wronged, with gentleness correcting those who are in opposition” (2 Timothy 2:24-25a).

How To Escape Pointless Arguments about God

Directing people toward the truth is our task. And some hills are worth dying on. But first you must know the truth (see 2 Timothy 2:15) and know what’s knowable versus what’s pure speculation. Interpreting scripture in context and avoiding fights over our guesses about God are a good place to start. You’ll be surprised at how few theological fights are left to win.

Young people do love to win arguments. We love to be right. We love to be smarter, quicker, and more informed than the next guy (and so do some old people). But God’s kind of people love to teach others with patience, kindness and gentleness. That’s why Paul told us to flee from youthful lusts and instead pursue virtues like peace. When we stay out of pointless theological discussions and only enter important ones with humility, there is peace. We can run from the “lusts” all young people have and find more love, faith and peace without the constant push to win the next argument.     

4 Comments
Mom
7/17/2013 10:53:10 am

Thanks Paul, this was very helpful.

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Nannette
1/9/2017 10:28:29 am

Finally, Truth. I don't personally know the author inspired who posted this, and I see how long ago it was posted. Holy Spirit God's Truth in the earth helps us to rightly divide the living Word of Truth. Because only Truth is timeless and Powerful. Thank you.

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Pastor Joe Karen
5/19/2018 02:00:38 am

Me too, I am enlightened. Thank youso much and may God bless you with more discerment.

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Bro. P
8/18/2018 10:49:54 am

You exposition is absolutely true in context of II Timothy 2. However on principle of "lust" of the youths or a believer for that matter, it could be expanded to turn away or flee the desire of iniquity/sin (v. 19c). Again, your content exposition, well done and appreciated. God bless.

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